DEAR ABBY: IвЂ™m 35 and possess been a widower for pretty much 5 years. I started dating about couple of years ago.
Within my activities of dating i’ve encountered a large amount of divorced moms. We came across somebody really special (IвЂ™ll call her Rose) per year and a half ago. SheвЂ™s great. We share a lot of laughs and objectives, but she does a thing that drives me crazy. SheвЂ™s constantly showing me personally Twitter memories/photos of her child whenever she had been young.
We never ever got the opportunity to have kids and seldom bring up my past because personally i think that is behind me personally. RoseвЂ™s ex is вЂњtoxic,вЂќ based on her, and from just just what IвЂ™ve witnessed, heвЂ™s pretty bad.
We see her daughter fourteen days out from the thirty days. Your ex is quite spoiled and entitled, so when sheвЂ™s maybe maybe not around, Rose keeps shoving old photos of her within my face and asking, вЂњIsnвЂ™t she therefore adorable?вЂќ
We canвЂ™t connect, and I also donвЂ™t take care of her child. Does which make me a jerk? Personally I think those old photos of her child are actually her memories together with her ex, also it could be in the same way bad if We revealed pictures of my belated spouse and asked, вЂњIsnвЂ™t she breathtaking?вЂќ Am I wrong? — UNPARENT OUT WESTERN