We have a questions that are few you.
First, I have no experience with cancerous narcissists. I am perhaps maybe not alert to any instant or extensive member of the family which includes any character condition. I have simply been reading a couple of web sites which can be compiled by other people because I stumbled on the subject and would like to get the full story..
You had written “Or do we simply accept that it’s the character of the animals to sting, bite, take and do whatever we should in order to prevent being hurt by them?”
Something I’ve seen in other people writings is the fact that focus is on preventing the MN. Does not this play in to the MN’s fingers? Does it not keep the effort in their mind, and places everyone from the protective, plus in a deal that is great of looking forward to another assault?
My real question is: would not it is far better to gain the effort and engage the enemy? Wear them the defensive, by pushing their buttons incessantly and without mercy?